It’s a double whammy. You’re constantly being gaslit or treated adversely in DC, then you go somewhere else for a bit, feel gaslit until you make the adjustment, and then get culture shock when you return!
It’s good to remember there are non transactional interactions with people—and it’s a great reminder of why people are suspicious of DC folk… because we’re suspicious of everyone!
Could it possibly be that your California interactions were with the many transplanted Midwestern folks who ditched the life-sucking winter weather for California's consistent good-life vibe? If we could all get to the ocean and a beach anytime we needed a stroll in the sand to chill, wouldn't our attitudes improve? Alas, we cannot... but it's good you experienced common decency, took note, and wrote this article about it. I couldn't agree more with the needed civility adjustment in DC and beyond.
Thanks, Cindy. At a time when unkindness gets the spotlight, I wanted to share a good reflection on humanity. Regardless of location - it’s a welcome and refreshing experience!
It’s a double whammy. You’re constantly being gaslit or treated adversely in DC, then you go somewhere else for a bit, feel gaslit until you make the adjustment, and then get culture shock when you return!
It’s good to remember there are non transactional interactions with people—and it’s a great reminder of why people are suspicious of DC folk… because we’re suspicious of everyone!
Could it possibly be that your California interactions were with the many transplanted Midwestern folks who ditched the life-sucking winter weather for California's consistent good-life vibe? If we could all get to the ocean and a beach anytime we needed a stroll in the sand to chill, wouldn't our attitudes improve? Alas, we cannot... but it's good you experienced common decency, took note, and wrote this article about it. I couldn't agree more with the needed civility adjustment in DC and beyond.
Thanks, Cindy. At a time when unkindness gets the spotlight, I wanted to share a good reflection on humanity. Regardless of location - it’s a welcome and refreshing experience!